September 10, 2009

A Long and Short Week

It seems like it's time to update again since another Wednesday has come and gone. This morning we had our small graveside service for Lilly. It is/was a cool day but the sun came out on our little flock as we sat and stood and listened to Psalms 121 and 139 and Luke 12. Pastor Norm Brown, a good friend of mine, conducted the service with grace and hope. Rachel Dunwoody sang "Children of the Heavenly Father" because we couldn't and we all joined her on the last phrase of the last verse because she couldn't. Jeanine commented on the power of the Scriptures and after a time of tears we were comforted by our family at our house. It was a difficult day but a necessary one and I think we all feel better having gone through it. God continues to give us what we need each day. We prayed the Lord's Prayer together and as we prayed, "Give us this day our daily bread," I remembered how about a month or two ago I had really been drawn to that request. Just enough for today, like manna in the desert.

And of course, it wouldn't be complete if we didn't tell you what was happening with Ellie. Yesterday's morning weigh-in had her at 3 pounds, 14 ounces. They did say she had a big poop so we wondered if the weigh-in was before or after that. Just thought you'd like to know. Anyway, last night the nurse had the Yankee game on the radio and although I am NOT a Yankee fan, I thought a little early infiltration of baseball in any form was acceptable. This morning the nurse attempted her first bottle feeding while Jeanine and her parents were there and she sucked that thing right down like a little pro (so I heard). She's been out from under the blue light since Sunday night, breathing on her own since last Thursday, and now gaining weight. We're cautiously optimistic that she's really doing what she needs to do and will likely be home before we know it.

Jeanine is healing slowly and I am taking a week of bereavement leave. So, hm. What more can I say except that we continue to appreciate your prayers and notes and love and we absolutely are uplifted by them. Much love to you all.

7 comments:

  1. Thank you for another update, and for sharing with us a bit of the graveside service for Lilly. I just read through the scriptures you mentioned - and send some tearful hugs to all of you. I'm thankful some of your family were able to be with you in person... others in love and prayer.
    Praising the Lord too for Ellie's progress, and praying for continued healing for Jeanine. Love to all of you, Aunt Joyce

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  2. Thanks for the update....I have measured my wednesdays/thursdays by your updates for months now :)

    Was thinking with great sadness of you guys all day today, I can only imagine how very difficult this day was for you all. Glad your family was gathered round as well.

    Love, Emily

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  3. We've been following your blog and you have been in our prayers. Sounds like a day of sorry and a day of happiness, which I'm sure will be your life for at least the near future. We pray for health for all and continued growth for the little one!
    Scott and Amanda Van Andel

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  4. I too have been following your journey, and have been so moved by your steadfast faith through some really tough stuff. What an incredible witness I'm sure you have been to all the health care workers involved in your care. Ellen is a beautiful little girl and blessed with wonderful parents! I pray all the best for your family!
    Sandy Westra (Bridgeway)

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  5. Thanks for your updates. Would love to hug you guys in person. Vander Brugs

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